Monday, August 23, 2010 @ 11:10:00 AM
if you actually know me well, you might know that my parents are actually divorced and almost every saturday night or alternate saturdays, i'll go to my dad's place to sleepover and the next day, we'll hang out together.

So yesterday, which is a sunday, my dad's side relatives mostly all came back to give offerings to my ancestors. Thereafter, they started talking about my family's problem and discussing and etc. Talking bad about my mom and blah. I was all along in the kitchen and heard everything. I felt very affected by it. Not that i'm siding my mom or my dad but i don't like my family's problem to be shared w the rest and become a topic for them to gossip about. This is not a very glamorous thing at all, so i don't see a point to gossip and rant on other's family issue. I wanted very much to go to the living hall and scream my lungs out at them but i bottled it up because i don't want them to think that i'm disrespecting them.

Last night when my mom got home, she started complaining non stop about a quarrel with my dad. i felt very affected that i don't want my parents to quarrel anymore. What's the point of all the quarreling after the divorce? divorce means to go on separate ways and i want them to lead a happier life than before. The gossipings are actually affecting them and leads to all the quarrel all over again.

I was so pissed and angry that i called all my relative and told them not to interfere into my family's business anymore. I tried my best to lower down my tone and talk to them nicely but i guess they'll still feel offended. Lastly, i called my dad to tell him that i called all of them. He wasn't angry until all of them started calling him and complained that i'm very disrespectful to them. my dad finally called and ask me not to go to his place anymore. Nice. I just want my parents to be happy but what i've got, is this.